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Post by Deleted on Aug 19, 2017 20:27:41 GMT
A place to discuss all things LGBTQ+ ๐ณ๏ธโ๐ and any other letters you fancy.
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Post by christmascake on Aug 19, 2017 20:41:55 GMT
Your ๐ธ has arrived.
I have nothing to discuss at this given time, but I can give you all a royal wave ๐x
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Post by Deleted on Aug 19, 2017 20:59:11 GMT
Your ๐ธ has arrived. I have nothing to discuss at this given time, but I can give you all a royal wave ๐x We are not worthy.
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Post by Ka-Ching! on Aug 19, 2017 23:06:54 GMT
Yass Queen!!!
I'm sure this thread will fill up easily, as long as Trump is in office it shouldn't be too difficult.
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Post by christmascake on Aug 20, 2017 15:24:35 GMT
I was walking to Starbucks when some lovely soul decided to shout gay boy at me, I just told him it's queen to him and he should kneel if he's addressing me.
Unfortunately, his response was a bit violent, but this is Oxford, and I'm from Tottenham. Think I scared him a bit ๐.
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Post by Ka-Ching! on Aug 20, 2017 15:41:19 GMT
Ffs some people are just scum, can't do much about it unfortunately.
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Post by christmascake on Aug 20, 2017 15:43:36 GMT
Ffs some people are just scum, can't do much about it unfortunately. Yeah, I'm lucky I can look after myself, I feel bad for people who are like more vulnerable. Obvs, because I'm not a natural blonde I must be gay. I mean I am, but, not everyone who dyes their hair is gay! If they are, I wonder what that says about my mother ๐ฎ?
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Post by Ka-Ching! on Aug 20, 2017 15:58:45 GMT
I just don't get why people have to actually go out of their way at to be assholes like that. It pisses me off so much. Like a girl I work with, she doesn't know I'm gay, she makes these homophobic comments every time any man that looks any little bit feminine comes in. I always call her on it, but she keeps doing it, so annoying.
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Post by christmascake on Aug 20, 2017 16:00:40 GMT
Also, while I'm here, boys are rubbish. Well, Dan's not so bad ๐.
So I have an overconvuluted story that basically ends with me with a broken heart and the guy not talking to me, because he's 'straight.'
I don't care how he identifies but cutting me out of his life after a year like I don't exist isn't nice โน๏ธ.
Worst part is I genuinely miss him, and despite us now living in different cities, he's still swerving me!
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Post by christmascake on Aug 20, 2017 16:01:41 GMT
I just don't get why people have to actually go out of their way at to be assholes like that. It pisses me off so much. Like a girl I work with, she doesn't know I'm gay, she makes these homophobic comments every time any man that looks any little bit feminine comes in. I always call her on it, but she keeps doing it, so annoying. I'd report her tbh. That's well out of order!
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Post by Ka-Ching! on Aug 20, 2017 16:54:34 GMT
I'd be reporting her to myself๐I've just learned to put up with it, she's actually fine for the most part. She's just ignorant and naive as fuck.
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Post by christmascake on Aug 20, 2017 21:55:04 GMT
I'd be reporting her to myself๐I've just learned to put up with it, she's actually fine for the most part. She's just ignorant and naive as fuck. Maybe I'm a bit too militant/political, but I've spent a lot of time in therapeutic services as an LGBT mentor, and I've seen how this impacts like youngsters and stuff. With the high rate of suicide attempts in the rainbow family, I don't care if they're naive, I stamp that shit out. I gave a colleague in ASDA a 25 minute lecture on diversity when I heard them call someone, 'faggy.'
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Post by Ka-Ching! on Aug 20, 2017 22:05:22 GMT
Yeah that's true. It's not even that she's malicious about it, it's just she thinks it's funny, and it's not. Most straight guys I know, use the word (Using this word will lead to a ban) as an insult to their friends, like it's a normal thing to say. It's strange and annoys me to be honest.
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Post by christmascake on Aug 20, 2017 22:13:46 GMT
Yeah that's true. It's not even that she's malicious about it, it's just she thinks it's funny, and it's not. Most straight guys I know, use the word (Using this word will lead to a ban) as an insult to their friends, like it's a normal thing to say. It's strange and annoys me to be honest. Yeah, according to the Stonewall school report, incidents of homophobic/transphobic language is down, due to campaigns, but scarily, incidents of bullying of individuals has increased, and two in five trans kids have made an attempt on their life! I don't think many people consider the impact that words can have. The old idiom that goes on about sticks and stones couldn't be any more wrong if you ask me. Bruises and broken bones heal. The mental damage often is worse and more long-lasting..
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Post by christmascake on Aug 28, 2017 13:12:01 GMT
I've not really been home this weekend between work and drinking...
So I was in a gay club on Friday and had no action, but end up in a straight bar and pull the bartender...how's that work ๐ค?
Also, I now have to avoid that bar because of it was a bit boring in the bedroom...
(Well technically it was the little stairwell just inside the flat doors but yeah..)
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Post by Ka-Ching! on Aug 28, 2017 13:54:16 GMT
That's um..... ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ
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Post by Deleted on Aug 28, 2017 20:14:45 GMT
Mess. ๐๐๐
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Post by christmascake on Aug 29, 2017 8:02:44 GMT
I feel worse today, and I was a good boy and had an early night...
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Post by christmascake on Sept 6, 2017 11:31:11 GMT
So for my birthday my family decided to disinherit me because I'm gay, delightful...
Just when I thought all this Catholic bullshit was over..I don't give a shit, I'm not even going to fight it.
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Post by Colbie on Sept 6, 2017 15:06:35 GMT
^ Woah so sorry to hear that! :-( Horrible that they are doing that to you!
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